It's hard when you are desperate to get a woman to pay attention to not to make it obvious that you are feeling that way and that you are trying really, really hard to get her to turn your way. However, if you do make it too obvious that you are desperate to get her to notice you, most of the time that will end up being the exact reason why she doesn't pay much attention to you. Kind of confusing that it works that way, right? Well, it does, most of the time. Guys that have a hard time getting women to notice them almost always come from one of two camps. One camp is the guys who are so quiet and shy that they just blend in and don't stand out. And the other camp is the ones who are so obviously eager to get a woman to notice them - that it ends up working against them.
Truthfully, you don't want to belong to either camp, but rather to the group of men that understand that they have to be standoffish enough not to be seen as desperate, but outgoing enough to actually get the woman's attention. It's all about balance here.
If you want a woman to pay attention to you, then you have to give her a reason to pay attention to you.
Put yourself in the state of mind of an attractive single woman. Day after day, week after week, there are plenty of guys who are flirting with her and trying to get a date with her. Soon enough, most of those guys just become "noise" to her and she doesn't pay them much attention at all. Why would she? Now, think about what kind of guy a woman like that would notice.
He would have to stand out in some way, no?
And he would have to possess some characters traits that she finds attractive. He would also have to know how to tone down his interest so that he did not come across as being part of that noise that I mentioned before. You do this by having the courage to walk up and talk to her, but also in being secure enough that you don't need her to pay attention to you 100 percent. If you can manage to come across as this kind of guy and not come off as being too desperate to make her aware of you, then there is a good chance that she is going to be aware of you and better than that - a good chance that she is going to be attracted to you as well.
It's easy to get attention from women when you are a naturally attractive man to them.
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