Having sex with a man who's not your official boyfriend? Or are you trying to hold back the massive urges to give yourself to that hot guy you just met? Before you get into his pants, keep in mind of what you'll get -- and what you'll risk losing -- in a friends-with-benefits situation.
Fact #1 - It's Quick, Cheap Fun... But So Are You
When a man sees you as a friend-with-benefits, he's basically telling you: "I think you are cheap and not worth anything more than a roll in the hay." And let's face it -- just how flattering is it to be called his "booty call?"
If it's just fun you're looking for, then it's probably okay. But if you're trying to keep the possibility of a more serious relationship in the future alive, then keep your clothes on. He may still not commit to you in the end, but at least you're giving him a chance to see you as someone who's more than just a "booty call" to him.
Fact #2 - Friends-With-Benefits Often Don't Stay Friends For Long
Being friends-with-benefits with a friend is a great way to wreck your friendship. It's just not "the same" afterwards, and you might regret losing a good friend a few years from now. So if he means a lot to you, and you value his advice and company (and his protection at sold-out concerts), then don't jump in the hay with him.
Fact #3 - In The End, It Benefits No One
Let's face it -- today, we live in a world where it's "okay" to have casual sex. Well, guess what -- it's NOT okay. It encourages men to see women as cheap and unworthy of true love. Teenaged women are getting pregnant, families are being torn apart, and unborn babies are being killed.
And society is "okay" with this?
Let's swallow the bitter pill now and for all -- sex should only be reserved for a man and a woman who truly loves each other, and are committed to spend the rest of their lives together. Anything less than that, and it's just a quick cheap thrill -- just like alcohol, tobacco, and drugs.
What To Do If You've Already "Done It" With Him
If you've already "done it" with him, then it's likely you've completely ruined your chances of a serious relationship with him. It's not impossible to turn things around and make him love you, but it may take quite some time.
So if you truly want to right a wrong, and try to make him love you again, then do let me help you!
To read more about how to make a man love you, click Signs He Wants You. You'll learn all the secrets to make a man Fall in Love with you.
Evangeline Harris is a dating and relationship expert. Her passion is to write informative articles for women who want to improve their love lives. Visit her site for more information.
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