You know the scenario, you are talking to your boyfriend and all of a sudden he is no longer listening to you but looking at the blond across the room. It's no wonder that women want to know why men look at other women.
Let's examine some of the evidence concerning men and their supposed bent to looking at women day and night. Do you remember some of the outlandish claims that have been made over the years? I remember reading somewhere that the average man thinks about sex every 7 seconds. I'm pretty skeptical of most men but I have always doubted that wild claim. If that were true men would never accomplish anything worth while outside of sex!
Now it's time for a little more reasonable statistics about men that have come from a study at Ohio State University at Mansfield. The author of the study was Dr. Terri Fisher, a professor of psychology. Here is what Dr. Fisher found concerning men and sexual thoughts. The study found that the median number of sexual thoughts for men was 18.6 and for women it was 9.9. In contrast, the average for men was 34.2 and for women it was 18.6.
So what those findings actually mean is that men think about sex twice as much as women. That is the reason men have a tendency to look at other women but they don't always look at other women. Sometimes we just imagine they are consumed with other women when in reality they're not. Let's be honest though, women do their share of looking at other men. Just remember that it is normal for your man to look at other women. The key here is "look", it's the man who does more than look that you need to distance yourself from at all cost. Your man is not a sex fiend who thinks of sex every 7 seconds, he's just a normal man.
What can you do to keep your man from doing more than just looking at other women? You can make him crave only you. First, you can start by making the outer package, your physical appearance, look as good as possible all the time. How well you dress, how well you maintain your hair and other physical attributes will greatly determine whether he just looks at other women or he goes further than looking. Second, be his best friend, work on the emotional and intellectual ties to your boyfriend and he'll value and protect what has developed between the both of you. He'll crave the woman you have become and resist the looks of strange women.
You can be the woman of his dreams and never worry about the competition. Be the woman he adores by CLICKING HERE and make him crave only you!
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