"Is He For Real?" This is probably the most commonly-asked question by new girlfriends everywhere. It's not always easy to tell whether a man is fully loyal to you, especially when the relationship is just starting out -- unless you watch out for these tell-tale signs of loyalty!
Question #1 - Does He Love All Aspects Of You?
It's a fact that men fall in love primarily with your looks. Physical attraction is always the first kind of attraction in a new relationship. But here's the question: Does the attraction STAY at the physical level, or does it evolve?
For a loyal man, attraction evolves through three stages -- physical, intellectual, and then emotional. Later on, as your relationship grows, he'll start to fall in love with your intellect and personality. And finally, when he's truly ready to spend the rest of his life with you, he'll fall in love with your heart and soul.
This is emotional attraction -- also known as "true love!"
And only the most loyal men ever reach this level. Players, men with issues, and men with attachments almost never go past the physical attraction level.
Question #2 - Is He Nurturing Your Relationship Nicely And Slowly?
If a man tries to get you into the bedroom too early in the relationship -- let's say, before 3 months have passed since you became official -- be careful. It's always a bad sign when he wants sex a little too much.
A loyal man nurtures the relationship nicely and slowly. It's like he's simmering the relationship, not heat-blasting it. A loyal man knows that he's going to spend the rest of his life with you anyway -- why rush things to the bedroom?
Question #3 - Does He Inspire You To Be A Better, Stronger, Happier Version Of Yourself?
A little-known trait of a disloyal man is to make his girlfriend feel as helpless and dependent as he possibly can. That way, he'll have her wrapped around his little finger -- and she'll never leave him, even as he treats her badly and flirts with other women.
But a fully-loyal man will instead inspire you to become better, stronger, and happier. Why? Because he knows he's in it for the long haul. And he'll want to make the ride into the rest of your lives as smooth, easy, and enjoyable as possible.
So what do you think? Is your new boyfriend fully loyal to you? Or does he have a few quirks you can't feel a bit worried about?
If you'd like to learn more about how to live a happy, fulfilling life with the man of your dreams, then I'll be happy to help!
To read more about how to make a man love you, click Signs He Wants You. You'll learn all the secrets to make a man Fall in Love with you.
Evangeline Harris is a dating and relationship expert. Her passion is to write informative articles for women who want to improve their love lives. Visit her site for more information.
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